Barbershops are a staple in our communities, something we are all familiar with. But what you may not know is the depth of these establishments. They are referenced as early as 296 BC but the barbershops you are familiar with began to make their mark in the 19th century, specifically with the African American communities. The shops provided opportunities for work, giving black men the chance to be entrepreneurs but it doubled as a place to gather. And that is what I am here to talk about with you.
During a time when society had little respect for the black community they chose to find strength in community with one another. They gathered through shared experience and grew stronger by connecting with each other. The shops were a safe place. A place they felt heard. I can’t begin to understand the fear they experienced on a daily basis but I can fully relate to the need to feel heard.
The Gang got together as we do every month and explored this very topic. It got me thinking that Tom and Emily [our communication partners] have allowed us to create our own sort of barbershop. We all came together through the shared experience of finding our voice. We gather as friends to talk, to listen, and to share ideas. We have seen first hand the strength that comes from connecting with others.
My dear friend Alex shared with us something powerful…”Groups are designed by human nature. We are not meant to be alone”. This resonated with me deeply. We are NOT created to be alone. We have an innate desire to connect. Look throughout history and you will see this time and time again.
I will close my thoughts by sharing my truth. My life is made full by my relationships with others and I am forever grateful for Alex, Nasser, Sarah, Kevin, and Chris for being my barbershop.